It's 2015...

Almost 1 year after my last post....

Year 2014 where we start our new chapter....
This year we was quite busy on preparing our wedding, and I did manage to complete few cross stitches along the year. Let's see what we did in 2014.

Jan 2014, finally I finished the cross stitch that I was working on it since I was unemployed last year... haha...
Finished up with a simple yet nice photo frame and give it to Ted & Chia Ming as their...erm... wedding gift? house warming gift? new born gift? Full moon gift? Seriously I took such a long time to finish this masterpiece! It's almost 1 and half year to complete it... but this is definitely worth my hard work! I am so proud to be able to complete this cross stitch in my life~ Hope they will keep it until old (^^)

Feb 2014, this year is the last year we can get angpow!!! Appreciate the time I can spent with all my family members! Love you all~

March 2014, Eng Kuan's big day this month~ Wish him and Alice sweet sweet and happy happy until old ya~

April 2014, can't barely remember what special occasion happened in this month... hehe....

May 2014, En Theng & Xinjie's ROM on Mother's day~ We went to Penang to attend her ROM since our wedding is one month earlier than hers, and according to Chinese traditional rules, is better to avoid attending each other's wedding. So we attend each other's ROM lo... haha... Wish Xinjie Mei Mei 做个幸福快乐的林太太，永远美美的，早生贵子哦~

June 2014, another month of happiness. Amelia's bf, Keith made his propose at the church. We witnessed the proposal and congrats to Amelia for being engaged and stay happy happy (^^)

* June 2014 - officially stopped operating the eCosway pharmacy at Bandar Puteri Puchong due to company decision.


16 June 2014, baby Jett Choy was born!! Welcome to the colorful world~ be a good son ya~ muacks~~~

July 2014, this few months was quite a struggling month... was thinking about resignation and to start new career path in HLA. But after getting advices from my team lead and also my dear, we have decided to let one of us to try the new career and the other stay on working. So... my dear went to fight for our future and be a full time in HLA, without any basic salary, 100% based on commission, meanwhile I stay on working in RHB. Trying to earn more and more money for our future~ Busy busy busy~ with all the wedding preparation~ excited and looking forward to next month, our registration of marriage~

30 August 2014, a looooong waited day.... our 12th Anniversary and also our ROM~
Thank you my dear for being so patient with me, accepting me as who I am, loving me with all of your heart...
I trust you and truly believe that you will be the one that walk with me until the day I say goodbye to this world. My greatest achievement in my life would be having you as my loved one. I love you, my dear LKC....

 

* Special thanks to our ROM photographer - Fei Gor~ thank you thank you~

6th September 2014, a week after our ROM, it's my best friend's ROM at the same venue. HY, u must love my dear friend with 100% Love and be there for her until your hair turns white. Happy for you, MC, remember to always treasure the one you loved ya...

October 2014, okay...this month is officially the month where my age "jump" into another category - 30 years old... sounds so old... =.=
Celebrated my birthday with the gang and had fun posting in the K room..haha~

25th October 2015, Jia Xing & Chew Shu's Big Day, congrats congrats~

15th November 2014, so this is the time!!! Finally MC and HY getting married, traditionally~ HY, u must love my best friend more than before ya~ take good care of her and feed her till fat fat white white..haha...
MC, glad that you two tied the knot after 11 years~ must appreciate each other and remember don't easily give up ya~ love need more and more patience~

November 2014, Wai Loon & Rose's Wedding.

22th November 2014, Guo Da Li Day~ Our Betrothal day~

December 2014, this is a busy month, busy on preparing the wedding stuffs~
14th December 2014, Onn Chong day, today is the day we change our bedsheets and move in my stuffs to his room.

19th December 2014, had my manicure and pedicure done in the morning, moved into the rented house in Shamelin and prepared for buffet dinner at night. Was a good experience in organizing a buffet, next time i will ask more friends to come in order to avoid the food to be wasted...and also 10pm the catering person will be leaving...haha... prepare your food container next time..haha...

20th December 2014, finally the most excited moment has come~~~ although we had quite a mess process but thank god, it's quite happy~
Morning session, ordered too much of food and can't finish...another lesson learned... haha..
After the morning ceremony, I removed the makeup and went for a short nap... once wake up, my eyes became swollen! OMG.... spend 1 hour to put ice on the eyes and was late for the makeup...hence the tea ceremony which supposed to be started on 6pm had to be delayed.... and the dinner started at 8.30pm. We had plan to start the dinner at 8pm... but end up, failed... another lesson...
Wedding dinner was quite smooth, except the time of changing 2nd dress, should bring more gowns as backup.
Really really thanks to our families that helped us on our wedding, and thanks to Wonderbooth for giving our guests a special door gift with laughter~
Thanks to Kean that helped my mum to set hair and brought her sons for the 'jump bed' tradition~
Thanks to our Heng Dai and Ji Mui that filled our wedding with joys and fun~
Thanks to Big cousin sis for taking care my parents in law and sister in law for us~
Thanks to every friends and relatives that attend our wedding dinner, you all colored our big day with blessing from you all~
Love you all~
My dear, thanks for making our wedding a memorable day for us... thanks for your effort on making the slide shows, coordinating with guests, photographer, videographer and photo booth... thank you for being my dear, thank you for loving me with all your heart, thank you for smothering me with love. Wish we stay the same after 50 years later...

Time Flies....

Yes time flies...
It's now June 2014...
Didn't realized that it's been more than a year I didn't write my blog....

2013... a tough year for me and my dear... Here's the highlight...

Jan - February 2013: Work Work Work + Annual diner + disappointing bonus again + CNY celebration. This year was the last annual dinner we joined in Syscatech and luckily we can get what we want, 5 years award (Tissot watch), Best dressed (Female and Male, both grabbed by us, haha), dear's lucky draw was RM 100 voucher and mine was a Guess watch which I gave to my mum after the dinner. We was the biggest winner for the annual dinner this year~ but guess what, they never know that we are planning to leave and before we leave, we must have some sweet memories~ and yes we did~

March 2013: Farewell for us and we have no plan yet...Just resign because of 'beh tahan'... Went to JB and SG for few days, visited CK and YL.

April - June 2013: No idea what to do for our future... so we just relax and stay at home most of the time...
Meanwhile, my dear keep changing his mind... at first we plan to look for job in SG then he changed his mind, so here we are..staying in KL.... and around June, we decided to join eCosway as one of my friend YJ successfully qualified to get the free franchise shop at Endah Parade. Thinking to follow her path, get a free franchise shop (^^)

July 2013: Half of our saving gone....and my dear wish to try running a business... then he research and survey for location. End up he decided to run a BBQ stall at Kuchai Lama food court. And I continue to work as part time in Endah Parade. Dear's business started this month....9 July if not mistaken. In order to assist him and support him, I need to work from 11am-4pm in Endah Parade, and go to Kuchai Lama to help him out... we worked till 12am sometimes. So exhausted those day.... After 1 week+, my dear decided to look for a job and stop the food business. There gone our deposit and some money for ingredient and tools.... but we learn a good lesson (^^).

August 2013: So... we went for interviews, looking for jobs in IT field again.... I was offered by RHB Bank and since it's a bank, so I accepted the offer and new job will start in September because of the new store that my friend take over. Since she sort of man power, I offered her that I will help her until September and luckily RHB there agree to hire me with such condition. So this month I mainly help my friend in her shop at Puchong.

September 2013: A new job, new environment, new colleagues!

October 2013: Time flies!!! It's one year after the proposal... and we still haven't start to plan for our wedding, haha~ Continue with normal working life, but weekend I will be helping my friend out in her shop.

November - December 2013: Work work work... nothing special to write.... But we start to plan for our wedding ceremony, which is one year later...hahahaha. And we start to save money... since our saving all gone due to half year of unemployment.... Quite tough to save back those money....

That is our year 2013~ although we unemployed for half year... but we have learn many thing~ and I feel that our life is so colorful~~~

Next post I will be writing about our 2014... another tough year also.... stay tuned~~~

p/s: ops~ forget to say, I had my teeth brace on Feb 2013, therefore I took very little photos this year. haha~

Life goes on.....

It's December...
Time Flies....
There are happiness, sorrows, memories throughout this few months....
Quite some time I didn't update my blog.... where I jot down my life... my feelings...

October 2012... a month to be remember!
Yup, this is my birthday month and it is my fav month too~ love this month so much~
As planned, we are going to Taiwan for our pre-wedding photography session... and we have make a commitment that we will not top up any photos for this time, and before our wedding ceremony, we will look for another pre-wedding photography session. A cheaper package but can fulfill what we needed for our wedding ceremony (gowns, makeup, suits & etc...). That's our promises to each other.
And a week before we depart, it was dear's convocation for his MBA. Glad that he finish his master, but he seems to be over excited for his convo, feel so funny when saw his excited face. But something fishy he is planning.... haha!
On the day, I was so busy doing works before I can prepare myself to attend his convo, and thanks to my lovely family members which take leaves to attend his convo. My dear requested me to wear prettier to attend his convo, I asked him "why you so excited about your convo ah? Seems like it's more important than our wedding plan to you wo....", and he replied me with silly face expression.... haha...
Before I reached UPM, I was nervous... for no reason I was feeling nervous... and I told my family I was nervous, they asked "you're not the 1 who graduated, why you nervous?" haha.... so weird... I just nervous for no reason....
And once I got there, I guess this is the reason I feel nervous!

It was such a surprise! I thought he will skip the proposal part until we are back from Taiwan... haha, he made it~ he make this day a memorable day for both of us~ 15 October 2012~
Thanks my dear for putting so much effort for the proposal and burned so much leaves for the preparation, haha~ and thanks to our families and friends that helped or attended the convo~ they witness the proposal and it more meaningful to us~ TQ~

p/s: thanks to Sweet Leng, Chin Siang and Chee Fei for the present for dear's convo, and Ms Ooi for the sunflowers too \(^^)/

我想我昨天是情绪失控了吧。。。可怜的他。。。让我发泄在他身上。。。伤害自己和他。。。对不起啊，Dear。。。
今天的情绪是好多了。。。
突然觉得我的时间真的真的不够用。。。
对不起妈妈。。。没有定时带她看医生。。。时常让她一个人。。。听着她说要搭车到这儿那儿，心里一点都不好受。。。她有4个儿女，但当她需要我们的时候，我们到底有没有尽我们的责任？回想起以前爸还在的时候，妈妈从来不用那么奔波。。。妹妹也不用要求我们去载她回家。。。他为我们的家付出那么多，我们呢？难道就要叫他离开了还要担心妈妈和妹妹的安全？当我知道我不在的一个星期，妹妹很多天是搭的士回家，弟弟竟然没有回家，没有人带妈妈去看医生。。。我的心实在是酸。。。
昨天带妈妈去推拿时，她叫的那么痛，你们懂吗？她说肩膀很酸，推的很痛。。。我问她做么没有叫你们带她去推拿，她说没有人回家。。。我鼻子酸了。。。
我知道我不能够要求任何东西，因为我自己也没能做好我的本分，但是我希望你们懂你们的妈妈，她从来不会表达她感谢我们为她做的事，她也不会开口叫我们为她而牺牲我们的时间。。。可我很希望我们都能主动关心她，多注意她的健康。。。
我知道我们都希望她能健健康康，长长寿寿享清福的。。。
爸。。。对不起。。。我知道我们能做的更好的。。。
想您了。。。

Please... please go away....
please stop torturing me again n again....
I don't want to worry again n again.... please... go away....

~ 10th June 2012, Marco & QiQi Wedding ~

So happy to get to know that friends are getting married, and thanks Marco for inviting me to go his wedding dinner. Never expect that he still remembers the old time in Uni, where I always share the assignments and homework to him, haha.. and he said to me this, "dun have u n pei wen, may b i cant graduate from UPM". The time he told me this, I felt so being appreciated. 

Thank you Marco~ and Congratulation to u and ur lovely wife~ wish you two Happy ever after~

And I'm happy to get around with ex-coursemates, although we do not have much topics to talk, but I happy to see u all (^^)

Leave this all behind...

Looking back those photos taken last 2 years.... we were so happy those days....
maybe i still cannot get thru this.. the question still inside my head... why our friendship will become like this?
I have no idea what friendship meant to them... but day by day... i feel that we are really not important to them... not even a little...
although we lived so near, although we met each other almost every weekdays, but there's no interaction between us...
Don't tell me bout the bullshit reason where we shld be the 1 who ask for going out dinner, who be the 1 talk first... all these just seems not right to me any more...
Everyone changing... changing everyday.... life is cruel....
so please, move forward, myself... stop being cruel to myself... leave all these meaningless things behind....
I keep telling myself this... I hope it works...
just pray for the pain to go away and start my happy life again...
dun wish to see myself smiling but something missing in my soul...
Be tough!